🤖 Literally, in English
“To give a pumpkin.”
Дати гарбуза. Daty harbuza
🤨 What does it ACTUALLY mean? →
🇬🇧 What you'd actually say
“To turn someone down.”
also: “To reject a proposal.” · “To say no to someone who asked you out.”
- 📖 Meaning
- To refuse a marriage proposal, or more generally to reject someone.
- 💡 Why it's funny
- Being handed a pumpkin as a rejection is both absurd and, in context, brutally public.
- 🧭 Closest English idiom
- No direct English equivalent. English has 'to turn someone down' and 'to give someone the brush-off', but no idiom involving a gift, and nothing that carries the ceremonial, public quality of this one. The pumpkin makes it untranslatable.
- 📝 Explanation
- Still widely understood and used jokingly about job interviews and dates as well as marriage.
- 🏛 Cultural context
- In traditional Ukrainian matchmaking, a young woman who refused a suitor handed him a pumpkin in front of the assembled families — a refusal that everybody in the village saw.
🧠 Learn
- turn someone down (phrase) — to refuse someone's offer or invitation — відмовити “She turned down the job offer.”
- propose (verb) — to ask someone to marry you — освідчитися “He proposed on the bridge.”
🗣 In context
Він освідчився, а вона дала гарбуза.
He proposed and she turned him down.
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