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🤖 Literally, in English

“Whoever loves someone also pulls their hair.”

Хто кого любить, той того й чубить. Khto koho lyubyt, toy toho y chubyt

🤨 What does it ACTUALLY mean? →

🇬🇧 What you'd actually say

“People tease the ones they like.”

also: “He teases her because he likes her.” · “Affection can look like fighting.”

📖 Meaning
People sometimes show affection by teasing or squabbling.
💡 Why it's funny
Read literally in English it is alarming advice; the Ukrainian rhyme makes it sound like a nursery rhyme instead.
🧭 Closest English idiom
No direct English equivalent. English has the schoolyard explanation 'he's only teasing because he likes you', but it is a sentence adults say to children, not a fixed idiom. English also does not have the hair-pulling image built in.
📝 Explanation
Said about children on a playground and about couples who bicker constantly. Mildly old-fashioned.

🧠 Learn

  • tease (verb) — to make jokes about someone in a friendly way — дражнити, підколювати “He teases his sister all the time.”
  • bicker (verb) — to argue about small unimportant things — сваритися через дрібниці “They bicker but they adore each other.”

🗣 In context

Вони весь час підколюють одне одного. Хто кого любить, той того й чубить.

They tease each other constantly. People tease the ones they like.

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Questions people ask

What does “Whoever loves someone also pulls their hair.” mean?

People sometimes show affection by teasing or squabbling.

How do you say «Хто кого любить, той того й чубить.» in English?

Naturally: “People tease the ones they like.”. There is no direct English equivalent — English has the schoolyard explanation 'he's only teasing because he likes you', but it is a sentence adults say to children, not a fixed idiom. English also does not have the hair-pulling image built in.

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